Tuesday, August 30, 2005

A Half Open Marriage or the Cuckolded Husband - part 7 conclusion

So there I was getting home around six am after falling asleep with G. Of course getting home this late or early the next day was noticed. So I told the first wife (fw) that I had gone home with a woman from the bar and spend the night. Boy did it ever hit the fan. I got yelled at, cursed and in general was told off. I just could not believe it. Here she was f*cking several other men and she had the nerve to tell me that I was cheating on her. Well this was the beginning of the end of the marriage as far as she was concerned. The next several months were bad at home. Finally she gave me the ultimatum, stop seeing G or she was going to file for divorce. I have a bit of a quirk in my personally, I lead like pony and push like a mule. She said that I was damn well going to stop seeing G or else. Of course fw was not going to change her life style. As I was the one in the wrong according to her. So I moved out. To make a long story short, I moved back and then out several times over the next year until fw filed for divorce.

To this day fw tells people, including our kids, that the reason for our divorce was my seeing that woman. Of course she never tells them that she had cuckolded her husband.

9 Comments:

At 8/31/2005 6:37 AM, Blogger Jamie said...

Of course not. I've had several friends that have done this. It always amazed me, and I always felt sorry for the husbands. But your friends probably know the truth and are just too afraid to stand up to her, or feel it's not worth fighting about. I know my friends that have done this have a capacity to just cut people out of their lives that don't fit their world view. Quite convenient.

Your better off, but I'm sorry their were kids involved. Do they know the truth?

 
At 9/01/2005 9:50 PM, Blogger SunsetMan said...

No. I did not want to get into a he said, she said withe the kids when they were young. One of the reasons for this blog was to write about some of this. Maybe some day i will give this address to my kids. Then again, maybe not.

 
At 9/02/2005 10:14 AM, Blogger Jamie said...

I certainly wasn't implying you should. Just curious. My mother once cheated on my father, and in a rage during their second divorce, he told me. I had a hard time being upset with my mother when I felt at the time I was being pushed to cut her out for it.

Certainly not something I would out her on, but maybe someday, just tell them there were things about your relationship they will never be privy to, and it's always more complicated than one person's side.

 
At 9/30/2005 5:07 PM, Blogger Desireous said...

When all is said and done you are certainly much better off. Though I'm sure you already know that. Still it's never easy to watch a relationship disovlve and twice as hard when there are children involved.
On an entirely different note you have a very interesting blog here!

Hugs
Desireous

 
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